Bringing Down the House – DivX Version (Normal Quality), DVD (Good Quality), PDA Version
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Actors: Martin Steve,Levy Eugene,Jones Angus T.,Rosenbaum Michael,Harris Steve,Haynie Jim,James Aengus,Burks Jernard,Miller Bronzell,Comedy,
Need help. Long but PLEASE read?
Alright, this is gonna be long and might seem at times im bragging and being cocky but just hear me out. So if you stop reading I wouldn’t blame ya. But this is like the only thing I have to let how i feel out and see what people think/say. Here’s the deal. Im a 21 year old guy. Im in college. I have great friends and family. Life is good. BUT when it comes to girls?.. I dont know.. something isn’t right. Im not sitting here saying I cant "pull" girls or have trouble talking to them or anything of that sort. I have always been able to be sociable around females and a lot wind up interested in me. I ran with the "cool" crowd in high school. I was what most people refer to as a "jock". I went to parties and I was popular. (im not bragging im trying to paint you guys a picture that I wasn’t a loser). But I wasn’t the arrogant A hole that people didnt like. I have friends from skate boarders to trashy people. People liked me. Im a nice guy. But girls, man somethin has to be wrong?. I’m 21 and have had sex with 1 girl. That was 3 years ago. I dont "crave" sex like most guys do I guess. I’ve just never been the type to want to take a drunk girl home from a party and nail her ya know? I just dont have any satisfaction in that. For the past 3 years of my life, I have had a ton of girls try and "talk" to or date me. But i just havent had the desire to really even try. I’ve had girlfriends, dated for awhile and had girls brake up with me in a vary of ways. NONE had any kind of effect of me or my emotions. It was like I just didn’t care? I honestly can’t say the last time I remember crying. I grew up being told that crying showed signs of weakness. I know that isn’t entirely true, it was just the way I was brought up… And this brings me to my reasoning for this post.. Recently I have been spending a lot of time with a girl. It started like all of the rest. Just hanging out and small things like that. Over some time, I have became closer and closer to her as we continued to hang out. She is just different then the other ones. She doesn’t expect much. I still take her out on dates but she doesn’t expect such things. Which is a relief in some ways. She mostly just likes coming to my house and cuddling with me and watching tv until we both fall asleep. I honestly haven’t been happy with someone like I have with her.. The other night. She kind of put a pause on our situation. She is only a few months out of a 3 year relationship and wants to take some time to make sure I am what she wants. She preached that we continue to talk and hang out because she really did like me a lot she just doesn’t want to commit until she can give me the complete her. I was cooperative and agreed to slow things down so she wouldn’t feel pressured to rush into anything. I was my same self again. I didn’t care. She was just another girl, right?… Well it has been a few days/nights since then. We still talk and text everyday and plan on hanging out either tomorrow or sometime this weekend. But over the course of the last few days I have felt feelings I have never experienced before. And even though we still plan on seeing each other. For the first time in my life, I feel sad. Not depressed kind of sad but, just sad. Like i miss her, a lot. And it hit me that I really care about her and I dont want to let this get away. So i guess my question would be.. How do I deal with these kind of feelings? I know it sounds ridiculous that im 21 and have no idea what its like to have these feelings. But I honestly dont know how to. I’ve just realized how much I actually do care about her and the past couple nights not being with her I have felt sad and feel like I miss her. I have never felt this way about someone of the other gender. . So how do I deal with these feelings? Any comments will be appreciated
Move on
She’s a friend, you’re not that interested, she’s not that into you.
Sorry dude
When you meet a girl you’re really interested in, you’ll know, she’s a convenience until that time comes, and isn’t willing to commit because she senses something better for her
Luck
spam_free_he_he | Nov 20, 2009
Explain to her exactly how you feel, she’ll be delighted to hear you care that much.
Caleb M | Nov 20, 2009
Tell her how you feel. That you feel depressed and can’t stand to be away from her. You never know she might feel the same.
Thunder | Nov 20, 2009
Don’t feel bad this is completely normal. Just relax and communicate these feelings to her. She will be touched that you feel this way about her. It tells her that you really care about her. This feeling is a kind of crazy feeling to have, but it is normal. Just remind yourself that you will see her soon. It might help you by printing this question and asking her to read it. This way you get all your thoughts out to her clearly. You sound like a nice guy who found a treasure. Women like when men tell them things like this. Your ok tell yourself that.
oden | Nov 20, 2009

