Gone Baby Gone
Posted in Uncategorized on March 4th, 2010|
IMDB rating: 8.10 Plot: Dorchester, one of the toughest neighborhoods in all of Boston, is no place for the weak or innocent. Its a territory defined by hard heads and even harder luck, its streets littered with broken families, hearts, dreams. When one of its own, a 4-year-old girl, goes missing, private investigators Patrick Kenzie and Angela Gennaro don’t want the case. But after pleas from the child’s aunt, they open an investigation that will ultimately risk everything — their relationship, their sanity, and even their lives — to find a little girl-lost. |
Actors: Affleck Casey,Freeman Morgan,Harris Ed,Ashton John,Welliver Titus,Williams Michael K.,Gathegi Edi,Margolis Mark,Slaine,Maher Matthew,Crime,Drama,Mystery,
Should i or Should i not?
My boyfriend & i have been dating for a while now.. & I’m 17, he’s about to be 23. He wants me to have his baby & starting next week we’re going to start trying.. But, I’ve never introduced him to my family but they know of him, he wants to meet them but i think they’ll trip about the age difference.. & he doesn’t know that I’m thinking about that… So i don’t know what to do but i do care about him and don’t want to loose him, should i have his baby & let things fall into place or just wait??
oh & his dad told me when he was young he got stabbed in one of his nuts and cant have kids, but hes never mentioned that to me at all, and all he talks about is that he wants me to have his baby. so could he be able to have kids or not be able to and just not know it yet?
You are soooooooooooooooooooooo stupid and foolish.
Gimmie a SNACKPACK! | Feb 06, 2010
One thing to say…. you are 17…
GracieGrace25 | Feb 06, 2010
You are one of the following: A troll, or plain stupid.
Nina | Feb 06, 2010
You are only 17. You have a whole life to live to do that, so why throw it away by having a baby at such a young age?
B$ | Feb 06, 2010
I strongly suggest that you do not have a child with this man. You should ask yourself, if he loves you so much and wants to have a family with you, why doesn’t he marry you first as a commitment to show that he is willing to provide for this family and be a husband and father? Do you love him enough to spend the rest of your life with him because if you have a child, he will be in your life for a very long time, granted that he doesn’t become one of those invisible dads who is simply making child support payments. Making a baby is easy. Being a responsible parent and raising a child in a stable, safe home environment isn’t always easy. Are your parents willing to help you raise this child if he leaves? Why does he want this baby? Is he willing to marry you, does he have a well paying job to support you and the baby? Does he have a home to provide a comfortable, safe environment for you all? What are the future plans for yourself? Do you plan to work, have a career?
Having a child will never make a man stay with you and if you think like this, you are in this parenthood thing for the wrong reasons. Women need to understand that men can leave anytime they want to. You are still very young and I understand that you care about him, but who you should care about most right now is you and your future. You should also consider and care about the future of your future child. Don’t bring a child into this world for selfish reasons, for reasons that will only hurt your child. You don’t have a baby because someone else wants you to have a baby. First love yourself and respect yourself and when you do, you will understand why this is not a good idea. Get married first, get a place to live, make sure he has a good job to support his family and then have kids. I assure you that if you follow these steps, your chances of having a happy family increases astronomically.
Why do you want to have a child? They aren’t like puppy dogs that you can give away on a corner if you decide you made a mistake. If you are doing it to please him, you are making the biggest mistake of your life. He can get a woman pregnant, I’m sure, even after his mishap. If he wants a child to prove to himself that he can have kids, that is beyond selfish and that is a very wrong reason to have a baby. Don’t give in to his pressure.
I do hope you make the right decision.
cutiepyne1 | Feb 06, 2010
